After skimming through the article, I concluded the article did not scream blatant self unawareness of one's looks. It was far worse. After cheating on her husband and breaking up another marriage with kids involved, all she learned from that experience was boiled down to this quote,
I am not one to judge and cannot be bothered to cast a stone when it comes to 99.99% of moral debates. Also, having done my share of DSB (dishonest sexy behavior) certainly requires I hide under a rock instead of yapping about this. However, I feel I must state this in support of the wounded parties and also to alleviate a modicum amount of my past guilt-when it comes to cheating just shut up about it. If you are selfish enough and you must speak, recognize what you did and do not make it about you and your pain. I can assure you whatever pain you are feeling is not near as much as that of the hurt party.